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uglypig · 22-06-2007, 01:42 PM

haha, yesterday talk to bf, he asking me whether i talking to him huh. I replied say 废话， or else i talking to who sia. then he say very rude to him. Do you all think is a very rude word to use�

xlostxinxreality · 22-06-2007, 01:49 PM

erm. i think not really ba.. can see ur bf abit da nan ren..

wildkev · 22-06-2007, 01:51 PM

nope ..... why should he think this way?

invisible.me · 22-06-2007, 01:51 PM

i dont think its a rude word..maybe your bf think too much and kanna offended..

uglypig · 22-06-2007, 01:56 PM

he say he is my bf, cannot say this type of word to him. Hai. Maybe to him is very rude ba. To me, i also dun think is very rude.. He say talk to friend can say those word, but to bf cannot. Then he say did you ever hear i talk such word to you. haha, true also, he nv use such word on me b4 la. hmmm. haha

invisible.me · 22-06-2007, 02:00 PM

since he mind..then next time dont use that word on him anymore bah..haha

cloud · 22-06-2007, 02:18 PM

well it is just me, i think is rude to use it on anyone. I dont show respect to the words that the others are saying. If others say that you say fei hua would you be happy???

uglypig · 22-06-2007, 02:42 PM

haha, my friends also like that say one. To me, i will not be unhappy lor. Haha, i happy go lucky one... haha

baby_eeyore · 22-06-2007, 03:44 PM

i think depends on the tone when u say that ba... probably ur tone is a bit harsh.. thats y he get offended ba...

lostspirit · 22-06-2007, 04:02 PM

but it is true tat if the place is jus only you n him. then is really 废话 tat u r toking to him.

he must be not concentrating listening to you and day dreaming thinking or looking at other things

radiantz · 22-06-2007, 04:09 PM

heng he nv met cantonese ...most probably we will say use your 'lunges' to talk ah as in 'fei hua' ya cantonese can suan alot :P very "chun"

Juel · 22-06-2007, 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by uglypig

haha, yesterday talk to bf, he asking me whether i talking to him huh. I replied say 废话， or else i talking to who sia.

then he say very rude to him. Do you all think is a very rude word to use�

think he was expecting an answer but the answer you gave made him feel that you treat his concern as crap thus he say it's rude.

you might not meant it that way but answering a question with 废话 might have a bad effect.

vcvc · 22-06-2007, 05:09 PM

i dont like people using this word on me, so i wont use it on others too =)

somehow if a person close to me says something that i dislike to hear, i would feel even more offended, (as compared to a normal friend saying that). i think thats something like how ur bf feels?
get what i mean?haha

pandanate · 22-06-2007, 05:57 PM

i wont use that word.
i will use.

WELL DONE CAPTIAN OBVIOUS. LOL

ChengJin · 22-06-2007, 10:55 PM

I think i will feel offended if my gf say that to me.

Also feel like abit disrespect.

22-06-2007, 01:42 PM	#1
uglypig Status: Happily with MY laogong... Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Bedok Age: 24 Posts: 91	Is 废话 a very rude word to use�; talking to who sia. & haha, yesterday talk to bf, he asking me whether i talking to him huh. I replied say 废话， or else i talking to who sia. then he say very rude to him. Do you all think is a very rude word to use� Last edited by uglypig; 22-06-2007 at 01:46 PM..

22-06-2007, 01:49 PM	#2
xlostxinxreality Status: Kamsahammida~ Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: `Bukit Panjang Posts: 727	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. erm. i think not really ba.. can see ur bf abit da nan ren.. __________________ L0ve, Waverlyn. h0ng Memories May Die. But Love Will Remain.

22-06-2007, 01:51 PM	#3
wildkev Status: Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,384	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. nope ..... why should he think this way?

22-06-2007, 01:51 PM	#4
invisible.me Status: Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Age: 23 Posts: 290	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. i dont think its a rude word..maybe your bf think too much and kanna offended.. __________________ A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking...

22-06-2007, 01:56 PM	#5
uglypig Status: Happily with MY laogong... Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Bedok Age: 24 Posts: 91	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. he say he is my bf, cannot say this type of word to him. Hai. Maybe to him is very rude ba. To me, i also dun think is very rude.. He say talk to friend can say those word, but to bf cannot. Then he say did you ever hear i talk such word to you. haha, true also, he nv use such word on me b4 la. hmmm. haha

22-06-2007, 02:00 PM	#6
invisible.me Status: Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Age: 23 Posts: 290	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. since he mind..then next time dont use that word on him anymore bah..haha __________________ A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking...

22-06-2007, 02:18 PM	#7
cloud Status: 桃花岛岛主 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 桃花岛 Age: 5 Posts: 7,238	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. well it is just me, i think is rude to use it on anyone. I dont show respect to the words that the others are saying. If others say that you say fei hua would you be happy??? __________________ < - - - she is so pretty that i can stared at her for the whole day without feeling tired. <----- Can she be my Mrs Cloud Which FF Character Are You? Do support my stories at below http://www.fictionpress.com/~edwardcloud

22-06-2007, 02:42 PM	#8
uglypig Status: Happily with MY laogong... Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Bedok Age: 24 Posts: 91	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. haha, my friends also like that say one. To me, i will not be unhappy lor. Haha, i happy go lucky one... haha

22-06-2007, 03:44 PM	#9
baby_eeyore Status: .e.e.y.o.r.e. Join Date: Oct 2005 Age: 25 Posts: 3,951	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. i think depends on the tone when u say that ba... probably ur tone is a bit harsh.. thats y he get offended ba... __________________ the art of eeyoreism drive thru the breeze

22-06-2007, 04:02 PM	#10
lostspirit Status: dEvil but not Evil Join Date: May 2007 Location: North East of Singapore Posts: 149	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. but it is true tat if the place is jus only you n him. then is really 废话 tat u r toking to him. he must be not concentrating listening to you and day dreaming thinking or looking at other things

22-06-2007, 04:09 PM	#11
radiantz Status: life is beautiful Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 2,208	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use? heng he nv met cantonese ...most probably we will say use your 'lunges' to talk ah as in 'fei hua' ya cantonese can suan alot :P very "chun" __________________ A WISH changes nothing... A DECISION changes everything.

22-06-2007, 05:09 PM	#13
vcvc Status: =) Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: east of sg Posts: 121	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. i dont like people using this word on me, so i wont use it on others too =) somehow if a person close to me says something that i dislike to hear, i would feel even more offended, (as compared to a normal friend saying that). i think thats something like how ur bf feels? get what i mean?haha

22-06-2007, 05:57 PM	#14
pandanate Status: Custom User Title Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 886	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. i wont use that word. i will use. WELL DONE CAPTIAN OBVIOUS. LOL

22-06-2007, 10:55 PM	#15
ChengJin Status: Magic N Magix Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Whampoa Dr Posts: 230	Re: Is 废话 a very rude word to use?�;talking to who sia. I think i will feel offended if my gf say that to me. Also feel like abit disrespect. __________________