[Poorkids]

Was helping out in one of the local sec school with my gf..-nights
After all things had finish , We settle down to rest and play. Watched my gf playing and paying attention to her's hp, i knew something wasnt rights..
I knew she's sms-ing someone who i dun like, at that moment, i feel like digging a hole and hide myself.. dont feel like seeing anymore.

After all had finish , We're all ready to sleep.. i asked her who she was sms-ing with via using handphone, typing out the word at the sms de..
She said its a friends, i asked her further. She said it would hurt me and ask me to self-service..

And no , i dint went into her inbox infact i wan her to tell me who she is smsing.. And yea she did.. she knew i hate her sms with her exs and godbrother and yes she did it once again. i cant deny that i have this pian jian over all her godbrother- ex that she broke up with and become godbrother.
Almost all get godbrother give stupid comment about me , and she starting to doubt me.. and started asking me question and theres one event where we actually cried over this when she rather believe her exs/godbrother than bleieve me.. All her exs wans her back . its difficult to keep her by my sides..its real hard, been fighting back and holding back for her.

And yeah shes sms-ing her god brother..once again, 1st feel hurt ..2nd pain pain..3rd and tear flow down by its own.. after chatting..still via sms de meathod. she said she wont sms them anymore.. she del all her sms from them and contact and nv reply their sms .. but still i cant forget that..it just leave a huge mark on this memories... i have tried to cheer her up..saying that its okay, and say im sorry that i cant keep u company as im buyin shifting thing and thus u will find other ppl to keep u company..but on the other sides,My heart bleed . She broke her promises, yeahs..she break her promises.. till now i still cant forget it.. hais how i can forget this and get over with?.

i really dunno why i cired..and then i actually hurt her..she cried too..

sorry,im not asking any Q .. just that i need some place to write my feeling out. cause it terrible.. it just that everytime get hurt cos she broke her promises//

[foolish_heart]

Good luck, bro.

I'll reserve a membership slot for you.

[radiantz]

it may be wrong of her to contact them behind your back then again when u asked her she did reveal to u...
its always easier said than done when ppl start talking about being considerate and understanding when the other party is busy with his/her stuff and the other one is lonely and isnt involved in it...its really difficult..

[爱哭鬼.]

Haizz how to say...

Girl still cannot forget their past..



Poorkid:

This show that you have grown-up and has a better understanding in r/s.

[little_whiner]

Then perhaps you should ask why she is still with you, and if she meant to do something that is unfaithful, she wouldn't be so truthful towards you. She was upfront about her smsing her exes...

maybe you shouldn't think so much into it?

[BeckHamHam]

Originally Posted by Poorkids

Was helping out in one of the local sec school with my gf..-nights
After all things had finish , We settle down to rest and play. Watched my gf playing and paying attention to her's hp, i knew something wasnt rights..
I knew she's sms-ing someone who i dun like, at that moment, i feel like digging a hole and hide myself.. dont feel like seeing anymore.

After all had finish , We're all ready to sleep.. i asked her who she was sms-ing with via using handphone, typing out the word at the sms de..
She said its a friends, i asked her further. She said it would hurt me and ask me to self-service..

And no , i dint went into her inbox infact i wan her to tell me who she is smsing.. And yea she did.. she knew i hate her sms with her exs and godbrother and yes she did it once again. i cant deny that i have this pian jian over all her godbrother- ex that she broke up with and become godbrother.
Almost all get godbrother give stupid comment about me , and she starting to doubt me.. and started asking me question and theres one event where we actually cried over this when she rather believe her exs/godbrother than bleieve me.. All her exs wans her back . its difficult to keep her by my sides..its real hard, been fighting back and holding back for her.

And yeah shes sms-ing her god brother..once again, 1st feel hurt ..2nd pain pain..3rd and tear flow down by its own.. after chatting..still via sms de meathod. she said she wont sms them anymore.. she del all her sms from them and contact and nv reply their sms .. but still i cant forget that..it just leave a huge mark on this memories... i have tried to cheer her up..saying that its okay, and say im sorry that i cant keep u company as im buyin shifting thing and thus u will find other ppl to keep u company..but on the other sides,My heart bleed . She broke her promises, yeahs..she break her promises.. till now i still cant forget it.. hais how i can forget this and get over with?.

i really dunno why i cired..and then i actually hurt her..she cried too..

sorry,im not asking any Q .. just that i need some place to write my feeling out. cause it terrible.. it just that everytime get hurt cos she broke her promises//

[COLOR="DarkGreen"]In this case...all u have to do is to weigh down the will to work things out with her or to forget her...whichever weighs most to you..then u do it...

Work things out with her : Bascially dont see a trust....ur relationship has already turned into a burden. However, if u have the strong will to work things out again for the last time, u will have the same strength to face up with all her nonsens n the past n move on to build a future. Start asking yourself is this girl is worth that much bahx...

Forget her: So far...i see.....she doesnt seem to be a girl whom u can trust....wats a relationship without trust....yesh its broken over n over agn..Any thing tats broken tooo many times will become crumbles to ashes to nothing.....rather than pushing yourself up the wall n eventually killing urself softly...why not just drop her? so many other girls out there...if she wanna find those ex-s of hers..let her find lor.... U oso can go out find other girls de ma...u never know when u will meet a better girl...and once u meet a better one...u will find tat she is nothing....

well...choice is still yours...

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[babyblue -]

a relationship is all abt trust. if there's no trust, either start building it or no point carrying on.

[chrisFyann]

Trust + sacrifices. She knows he wouldn't be happy. Minimally don't do it so blatantly.

Have a chat with her.

Originally Posted by foolish_heart

Good luck, bro.

I'll reserve a membership slot for you.

What's the name the club?

[foolish_heart]

Originally Posted by chrisFyann

What's the name the club?

You club member liao still need to ask meh?

First club AGM with Amoro and Akai then we decide on name hor, maybe called BFG (Betrayed Fools Group)

[amoro]

Originally Posted by foolish_heart

You club member liao still need to ask meh?

First club AGM with Amoro and Akai then we decide on name hor, maybe called BFG (Betrayed Fools Group)

wait wait wait..
me only heart broken...

no betrayed involve hor...

we all are juz ppl who use too much heart in love, caring for someone who dun love us.

[foolish_heart]

Originally Posted by amoro

wait wait wait..
me only heart broken...

no betrayed involve hor...

we all are juz ppl who use too much heart in love, caring for someone who dun love us.

:eek: disqualify from memerbship!

[little_whiner]

Originally Posted by foolish_heart

:eek: disqualify from memerbship!

Hahaha, priceless.

[SnowRaven]

hey ever wonder why she trusts those guys instead of you?

after all if she can tell u outright that who she is smsing then there is proberly something left in yr relationship worth salvaging?

[foolish_heart]

Originally Posted by SnowRaven

after all if she can tell u outright that who she is smsing then there is proberly something left in yr relationship worth salvaging?

Or maybe she just doesn't care what he thinks/feels about it anymore. Or she thinks maybe she can have it both.

I just watched the show "Honesty" on TV earlier this evening. For the sake of drama, the show was about guy is ridiculously nice/honest/helpful. The guy came home one day to find his gf in bed with the delinquent pizza delivery punk. In trying to persuade his gf to leave the pizza guy, he pointed out how the pizza guy would not be able to take care of her, no financial security, no sense of responsibility etc etc.

She asked him "but you still love me right? You will still love me even if I go with him right? If things don't work out, I can still come back to you and you will still love me and take me back right?" Being the ridiculous fool that he is, of course he answered yes to everything.

Of course nobody in real life is that foolish if they really caught their gf in the act. But it does bring up the fact that if a woman can get away with it, of course she would want both the irresponsible but exciting guy for fun, and the nice devoted man to take care of everything else.

Failing which, most women take the other route, fool around with the bad boys first for fun. When sick and tired of it all, they know the nice guys are still around.

[akaihayate]

i thought i heard someone calling me?

Poorkids: i'm trying very hard to read and comprehend what you're trying to tell us. haha. anyway, i guess she is still quite young? she is not ready to settle down for a r/s from what i see.