[akimoto takumi]

hmm, if the girl tells the guy tt she doesn't want to be in a relationship atm after the guy expressed his feelings, what are the chances tt she's telling the truth?

or she's just tryin to say tt "omfg, i really don't like u!" in a more subtle manner?

girls, do u all do tt?

thanks yea~

[sharmain]

She's not interested in you?

[Adelphia]

10% dun wan relationship
90% dun wan to get in relationship WITH YOU

[topman2902]

Originally Posted by akimoto takumi

hmm, if the girl tells the guy tt she doesn't want to be in a relationship atm after the guy expressed his feelings, what are the chances tt she's telling the truth?

or she's just tryin to say tt "omfg, i really don't like u!" in a more subtle manner?

girls, do u all do tt?

thanks yea~

IMO and from a past experience, that could really be true but she may have only told you half of what's in her heart. the other half... haiz...

share with you my real experience .. happened back in 2005. after i expressed my feelings for this gal i'd been going after for 8 mths, she said something similar also - that she's not sure if she wanted to be in a relationship at the moment. so i also thought she was telling me the full truth coz she was a local uni scholar and doing her post-grad studies at that time and was really very very busy then. so i didn't think too much of what she said and took it to be the 100% truth - that her studies came first at that time. so i thought that ok, at least i am only rejected because of something else that's only temporary and would be over soon. so i decided to still continue my pursuit but at a lower gear this time, while waiting for her to complete her studies lor.

but a few months later, curiousity got the better of me and so i contacted her best buddy to see if he could tell me anything about the way things were. to my extreme disappointment, he told me that she felt we couldn't click..she says that there was no chemistry at all between us. so this was the other half that she didn't tell me..

that little bit of info from her buddy really changes things dosen't it ?

[weixiang]

might still haf chance but pretty slim..have to understand teh situation 1st..

[downfall22]

huh still have chance meh? 1% ba at most.

that is very outright liao le akimoto. pls dun dwell any deeper.. will hurt more when she go stead with another guy and u will start accusing her of lying to you and will not fall for another ger and bla bla bla...

[weixiang]

then, wat happened to me after expressing was she liked me but due to a 5 year bf, found it hard to let go and choose me..

but i persevered and was finally rewarded..

not recommended th0u...hahaha

[yamcake]

i think the same thing is happening to me now...

sigh.. i really would like to believe in what she has said.
but till reading all these post... hmmm.. maybe its right..

prehaps she doesn't want to be in a relationship... with me. so sad..

[downfall22]

doesn't want to be in a relationship is always a excuse.. not reason...

no one in this world can resist love... if the right person pop up, do u think she will say the same thing??

[akimoto takumi]

Originally Posted by downfall22

doesn't want to be in a relationship is always a excuse.. not reason...

no one in this world can resist love... if the right person pop up, do u think she will say the same thing??

wah, i tink wad u said here make hell lot of sense.

thanks all for inputs~

[skor]

1- her past relationships all so bad... so she decided to take things slowly.... wants to be single for some time....

2- it is true but u are not the right person whom she will feel eager to step into another relationship again.....

3- still cant forget her ex....

how long u known her till u confessed?

[akimoto takumi]

Originally Posted by skor

1- her past relationships all so bad... so she decided to take things slowly.... wants to be single for some time....

2- it is true but u are not the right person whom she will feel eager to step into another relationship again.....

3- still cant forget her ex....

how long u known her till u confessed?

erm, then how abt a case of her not having any have ex-es?

known her ard 8 mths bah.

[skor]

1- she got someone in mind.... waiting for him to accept her.....
2- got rejected by that someone but still cant forget him.....
3- not interested in u.... at the moment....
4- enjoys being single.....
5- wants to focus in work/studies......

hmm... better dont have high hopes... for now juz be frds.... dont keep thinking about having relationship with her..... see how it goes.....

[yugi_J_J]

Originally Posted by akimoto takumi

erm, then how abt a case of her not having any have ex-es?

known her ard 8 mths bah.

MAybe coz she reali haven found anyone tat she has chemistry wif? Maybe she juz wan one realli good r/s in her life and not anyhow stead here and there. So maybe its her attitude towards r/s is veri serious and wan get tings right b4 starting one.

[tranquility82]

maybe i think she might not be willing to get involved in another relationship right now. Did she just break off or? It depends.. But, bro, if that guy really like her, be patient and wait.. just like what i doing.. wait a year already.. but i will continue to wait ..