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14-12-2006, 03:42 PM
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Status: Useless Ah Fat
Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Animal World
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Will you leave....
just curious...
if you have done something wrong.... behind your partner's back, will you automatically choose to leave them? eg. been together for 7years liao, promised each other that you will leave each other only when the opp done something wrong.... den one day you get to know this nice nice guy/gal and you kinda like him/her... and he/she express his/her feeling towards you.... den you 2 hold hands when go shopping or have meals together... will you choose to leave your current partner cos you have done something not right? but he/she did not do anything wrong and still don know abt your...wrong doing... yet? often only see examples that, the betrayal always refused to break and the 'victim' always the one decided to leave.... 
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14-12-2006, 03:59 PM
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Status: Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2004
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Re: Will you leave....
if i leave him consider break liao ma. if i don that i will consider levaving him
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14-12-2006, 03:59 PM
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Status: .e.e.y.o.r.e.
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Age: 25
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Re: Will you leave....
erm... if hold hands only.. i wont leave ba.. if my heart still have my bf.. i wont leave... unless i have no more feelings for my partner..
i will confess to him.. utimately if he choose to leave.. i guess i deserve it.. |
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14-12-2006, 04:01 PM
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Re: Will you leave....
If one really make this kind of vow, then you feel it's your duty to do the breaking because of the things that are done wrong...you would have done so right? You wouldn't have ask liao...
Ask yourself, do you really like the 3rd party that are coming in between you and your bf? Holding hand doesn't mean one is totally head over heel in love with the person you know? If you think you still want your bf, let him know honestly, that you did something wrong but whether or not he accept you back is another matter lor.... If one make such vow, how can one forget about it and give the 'go ahead' sign and do wrong things? Unless the relationship is on the rock or that one is feeling to stray, then will make such mistake one lor... If i were to make such vow and i were to break it, i wouldn't hesitate to break off at all. One must pay for one's own action. |
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14-12-2006, 04:05 PM
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Status: 桃花岛岛主
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Re: Will you leave....
I will if my conscious prick me anyway i dont have too much of it.
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14-12-2006, 04:26 PM
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Status: Useless Ah Fat
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Location: Animal World
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Re: Will you leave....
sure will say out and let your partner decide ma?
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well... maybe this r/s is too Ping2 Dan4, nothing big happened meaning no big quarrels, no big surprises etc etc.... and it has been 7yrs.... along these 7yrs, theres no nice guy/gal came along till one day this nice guy/gal happen to be your new colleague.... and you have been facing each other for 9hrs 5days a week... take same bus to and fro office, take lunch together sometimes dinner too, staying near to each other.... etc etc i mean, you spend more time with this 3rd party than your partner.....
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14-12-2006, 04:30 PM
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Re: Will you leave....
If you respect them, why not?
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14-12-2006, 04:33 PM
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Status: Model Rator
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Re: Will you leave....
if i really did tat i will sure tell my gf n let her know wat happen...
IF i still love her i wld ask her to forgive her but if she doesnt den its my fault....i've let her down i got nothing to say....i deserve it.... ELSE i will tell her i dun deserve to b with her aft wat happened even she insist i wont...cos i got no feeling liao n dun wanna b pricked n dun wan her to kept raking it up in future.......
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14-12-2006, 06:00 PM
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Re: Will you leave....
It will have to depend who u love more and who u want to spend the rest of ur life with.
A ping2 dan4 r/ship can oso be a blissful r/ship. So thk carefully b4 making a decision. |
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14-12-2006, 06:12 PM
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Status: “It is the mind that makes the body rich.”
Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Asia, Singapore, East
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Re: Will you leave....
Why leave a 7 yrs relationship becoz of a mistake? Since you know you have made a mistake, I guess its wise to just learn from it and do not repeat it...
If you still have the guilt feeling, confess to your partner and ask for forgiveness....what done cant be undone....but if you realize your mistake and learn from it...i believe your love with your partner would be stronger.... 7 yrs is not a very short r/s...how many 7 yrs have you got?
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14-12-2006, 10:54 PM
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Re: Will you leave....
If you still love your bf, you shouldn't tell.... Because, nobody will forget they been betray.... Even he forgiven you and i am sure he/she will never forget... In future, if you happen to go out with your friends regardless its a he or she, there will always be a suspicious...
If you do not want a crack line in between you and your bf, my advise, DON't TELL... |
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14-12-2006, 11:20 PM
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Status: ~ sTaR iN fAnTaSy ~
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Re: Will you leave....
... i'll prob confess 2 him ... if he can 4gt & 4gives, den maybe can stay ... if nt, den leave ...
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14-12-2006, 11:46 PM
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Status: I love monsters
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Clementi
Age: 26
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Re: Will you leave....
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7yr.. if nt den leave... means 7 yrs u been with him for nthing... given this 7 yrs... ur partner should be able to forgive u
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14-12-2006, 11:53 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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Re: Will you leave....
As i said forgive and forget are 2 different thing...
Just my opinion |
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15-12-2006, 12:00 AM
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Status: I love monsters
Join Date: Oct 2005
Location: Clementi
Age: 26
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Re: Will you leave....
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but when u forgive the person.. dun means u forget its easy to forgive but nt to forget....
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