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Eileen1983 · 31-05-2006, 12:24 PM

Ytd was suppose to meet up wif my bf...we have not seen each other for days liao...And he promise and say confirm he will meet mi ytd de...But in the afternoon he msg mi say he tired and got report to rush and all that...say only meet for dinner then go home...I was very disappointed as he say will acc mi de...

We nv have dinner 2gther cos i was damn piss off by him liao...Then for the whole evening thr was no news of him...Then at abt 10pm i call him nv pick up my call...I call again one hr later nv pick up but after one min he call mi....but i reject the call...then after that we did msg each other...I ask him wat was he doing wen i call him and he say he was sleeping..

I was like hmm tot u got report to rush y was u sleeping...then he tell mi report can wait de...wow then wat he say in the afternoon that he have report to rush and all that is all lie???

Then we have a few more sort of argument msg b4 he say this" Good night..i go sleep liao..tml then sms u"...then i msg "Fine"...

I was wondering the whole night ....he still love m e or not? I cry to sleep...I was sad and disappointed by his heck care attitude toward mi...

Then this morning i msg him say we need to meet and sort out our pro and he say ok...ask mi whr?i say i no suggestion ask him to decide...He reply" Simple..Yishun lo"...

I was very "Bu Shuang" in his msg tone...Did this mean that he dun love mi anymore...I feel like crying out now...But cannot was in office wen typing this...

Can anyone pls tell mi wat to do...

I was very sacre abt how he will react later in the evening wen we meet?

Haiz.......:|

adrian_82 · 31-05-2006, 12:27 PM

looks like ur bf attitude kinda hack care hack care. he's been treating u like tis all the while or juz recently?

no offence, but when i heck care... means i already sian of the relationship. thats juz me la, might no apply to everyone.

Xiao.Long.Nu · 31-05-2006, 12:28 PM

Is he NSF? Got more details?

feverinred · 31-05-2006, 12:30 PM

sry to hear this..
but, hmm.. maybe he's having a bad day or two and is not in a mood to be nice? find out what problems he's facing before jumping into conclusions ba... dun tik too much.. abt whether he still love u or not... he can't just stp loving u aftr 1 day of bad day...
is it juz ytr or he already heck care u long le?

Xuandy · 31-05-2006, 12:33 PM

maybe he is really busy with his work, then very fed up leh?
some guys like tat 1 loh...... they face stress so they dun wan anything to bother them anymore but that dun mean he dun care la. this is only 1 possibilities.....
if tonight anythin bad happen, jus take it easy k

Eileen1983 · 31-05-2006, 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Xiao.Long.Nu

Is he NSF? Got more details?

He was working in the service line de..having different shift work every week...so is quite hard for us to meet everyday de...so i was quite looking forward to ytd meeting de..but haiz...

cloud · 31-05-2006, 12:35 PM

How long has you all been togather? And how old is he? When i have major projects on, i will put my head in it. And if i am really too tired then hack care already. Sleep is more important, you won't die by not completing your project in time but you will die of not sleeping.

Anyway i think he is also very stress. I presumed that Yishun is near where he stay. Probably he is still busy and want to see you for a dinner or something?

p.s. Man are also prone to PMS too unfortunately.

Eileen1983 · 31-05-2006, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by adrian_82

looks like ur bf attitude kinda hack care hack care. he's been treating u like tis all the while or juz recently?

no offence, but when i heck care... means i already sian of the relationship. thats juz me la, might no apply to everyone.

this is wat i told his fren also my fren now...then he told mi my bf have alway been giving this heck care attitude toward anything de ma...ask mi dun thk too much...hmm...is like he can change his plan last min wo informing mi de...if i nv ask he will not say de...everytime have to go ask him then he will tell mi...

I just wan him to pay more attention to mi am i asking 2 much???

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Originally Posted by edward009

How long has you all been togather? And how old is he? When i have major projects on, i will put my head in it. And if i am really too tired then hack care already. Sleep is more important, you won't die by not completing your project in time but you will die of not sleeping.

Anyway i think he is also very stress. I presumed that Yishun is near where he stay. Probably he is still busy and want to see you for a dinner or something?

p.s. Man are also prone to PMS too unfortunately.

Been 2gther one yr already...he is 24 i am 23...we both live in yishun..opposite block only....

adrian_82 · 31-05-2006, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Eileen1983

this is wat i told him fren also my fren now...then he told mi my bf have alway been giving this heck care attitude toward anything de ma...ask mi dun thk too much...hmm...is like he can change his plan last min wo informing mi de...if i nv ask he will not say de...everytime have to go ask him then he will tell mi...

I just wan him to pay more attention to mi am i asking 2 much???

hmm, if ur bf attitude like that all this while.. than i suppose its normal ba. nothing to worry about.

juz tell him in the face he's been neglacting u, and see wat he says ba

Eileen1983 · 31-05-2006, 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by adrian_82

hmm, if ur bf attitude like that all this while.. than i suppose its normal ba. nothing to worry about.

juz tell him in the face he's been neglacting u, and see wat he says ba

I have been telling him this .... this is not the first time already... tell liao still feel neglected...

Then wen i ask him whther he care abt mi or not? he say Yes...Then i tell him i cannot feel his care...He say he care but dun noe how to show...he nv show how i know leh...haiz...

Are guy really that "Mu Tou" cannot or should i say dun bother to know even how we gals feel????

feverinred · 31-05-2006, 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Eileen1983

I have been telling him this .... this is not the first time already... tell liao still feel neglected...

Then wen i ask him whther he care abt mi or not? he say Yes...Then i tell him i cannot feel his care...He say he care but dun noe how to show...he nv show how i know leh...haiz...

Are guy really that "Mu Tou" cannot or should i say dun bother to know even how we gals feel????

guys can really be mu tou, alot guys wouldnt know how to show their care. er, get used to it? =X just dun tik too much abt it... he loves u.

cloud · 31-05-2006, 12:49 PM

Since it had been like this for a while, probably it is his habit.

Since you all live so close to each other, why not accompany him when he is doing his project maybe when he is at his house so that he get to complete his project and that he can also acchieve the aim of able to accompany you as well....

Some people just have the inborn mutant power of changing schedule like no one business. My sister also like that and at times it pissed me off when she does something that concern about me or the family she either change schedule without warning or what and made me have to relocated my scehdule according to her wills.

Actually it is not too much for you to ask him to take more notice on you.

adrian_82 · 31-05-2006, 12:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Eileen1983

I have been telling him this .... this is not the first time already... tell liao still feel neglected...

Then wen i ask him whther he care abt mi or not? he say Yes...Then i tell him i cannot feel his care...He say he care but dun noe how to show...he nv show how i know leh...haiz...

Are guy really that "Mu Tou" cannot or should i say dun bother to know even how we gals feel????

yeah, some guys are "mu tou" an i gotta admit i one of the mu tou gang. anyway, dun think so much la, everything will turn out fine for u guys.

Eileen1983 · 31-05-2006, 12:56 PM

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Originally Posted by edward009

Since it had been like this for a while, probably it is his habit.

Since you all live so close to each other, why not accompany him when he is doing his project maybe when he is at his house so that he get to complete his project and that he can also acchieve the aim of able to accompany you as well....

Some people just have the inborn mutant power of changing schedule like no one business. My sister also like that and at times it pissed me off when she does something that concern about me or the family she either change schedule without warning or what and made me have to relocated my scehdule according to her wills.

Actually it is not too much for you to ask him to take more notice on you.

He dun do his report at home de...he normally do outside he say at home he cannot concerate...i also hope to acc him...but there was i few time he "chase" mi home....:|

amoro · 31-05-2006, 12:56 PM

tonight meet him up, tell him how u felt.
let him noe how serious tis is....

31-05-2006, 12:24 PM	#1
Eileen1983 Status: Sianz Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Part Of Singapore Age: 26 Posts: 182	Sad... Ytd was suppose to meet up wif my bf...we have not seen each other for days liao...And he promise and say confirm he will meet mi ytd de...But in the afternoon he msg mi say he tired and got report to rush and all that...say only meet for dinner then go home...I was very disappointed as he say will acc mi de... We nv have dinner 2gther cos i was damn piss off by him liao...Then for the whole evening thr was no news of him...Then at abt 10pm i call him nv pick up my call...I call again one hr later nv pick up but after one min he call mi....but i reject the call...then after that we did msg each other...I ask him wat was he doing wen i call him and he say he was sleeping.. I was like hmm tot u got report to rush y was u sleeping...then he tell mi report can wait de...wow then wat he say in the afternoon that he have report to rush and all that is all lie??? Then we have a few more sort of argument msg b4 he say this" Good night..i go sleep liao..tml then sms u"...then i msg "Fine"... I was wondering the whole night ....he still love m e or not? I cry to sleep...I was sad and disappointed by his heck care attitude toward mi... Then this morning i msg him say we need to meet and sort out our pro and he say ok...ask mi whr?i say i no suggestion ask him to decide...He reply" Simple..Yishun lo"... I was very "Bu Shuang" in his msg tone...Did this mean that he dun love mi anymore...I feel like crying out now...But cannot was in office wen typing this... Can anyone pls tell mi wat to do... I was very sacre abt how he will react later in the evening wen we meet? Haiz.......:\| __________________ 你能选择爱我或不爱我，但我只能选择爱你或更爱你 Last edited by Eileen1983; 31-05-2006 at 12:26 PM..

31-05-2006, 12:27 PM	#2
adrian_82 Status: Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: southpark Posts: 593	Re: Sad... looks like ur bf attitude kinda hack care hack care. he's been treating u like tis all the while or juz recently? no offence, but when i heck care... means i already sian of the relationship. thats juz me la, might no apply to everyone.

31-05-2006, 12:28 PM	#3
Xiao.Long.Nu Status: Master Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: where U can't find me... Posts: 3,389	Re: Sad... Is he NSF? Got more details?

31-05-2006, 12:30 PM	#4
feverinred Status: Stealth Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Age: 22 Posts: 621	Re: Sad... sry to hear this.. but, hmm.. maybe he's having a bad day or two and is not in a mood to be nice? find out what problems he's facing before jumping into conclusions ba... dun tik too much.. abt whether he still love u or not... he can't just stp loving u aftr 1 day of bad day... is it juz ytr or he already heck care u long le? __________________ Last edited by feverinred; 31-05-2006 at 12:30 PM..

31-05-2006, 12:33 PM	#5
Xuandy Status: I speak wat i think! Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: With the Almighty! Age: 30 Posts: 994	Re: Sad... maybe he is really busy with his work, then very fed up leh? some guys like tat 1 loh...... they face stress so they dun wan anything to bother them anymore but that dun mean he dun care la. this is only 1 possibilities..... if tonight anythin bad happen, jus take it easy k

31-05-2006, 12:35 PM	#7
cloud Status: 桃花岛岛主 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 桃花岛 Age: 5 Posts: 7,238	Re: Sad... How long has you all been togather? And how old is he? When i have major projects on, i will put my head in it. And if i am really too tired then hack care already. Sleep is more important, you won't die by not completing your project in time but you will die of not sleeping. Anyway i think he is also very stress. I presumed that Yishun is near where he stay. Probably he is still busy and want to see you for a dinner or something? p.s. Man are also prone to PMS too unfortunately. __________________ < - - - she is so pretty that i can stared at her for the whole day without feeling tired. <----- Can she be my Mrs Cloud Which FF Character Are You? Do support my stories at below http://www.fictionpress.com/~edwardcloud

31-05-2006, 12:49 PM	#12
cloud Status: 桃花岛岛主 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: 桃花岛 Age: 5 Posts: 7,238	Re: Sad... Since it had been like this for a while, probably it is his habit. Since you all live so close to each other, why not accompany him when he is doing his project maybe when he is at his house so that he get to complete his project and that he can also acchieve the aim of able to accompany you as well.... Some people just have the inborn mutant power of changing schedule like no one business. My sister also like that and at times it pissed me off when she does something that concern about me or the family she either change schedule without warning or what and made me have to relocated my scehdule according to her wills. Actually it is not too much for you to ask him to take more notice on you. __________________ < - - - she is so pretty that i can stared at her for the whole day without feeling tired. <----- Can she be my Mrs Cloud Which FF Character Are You? Do support my stories at below http://www.fictionpress.com/~edwardcloud

31-05-2006, 12:56 PM	#15
amoro Status: Supreme Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Location: some wher there.... Age: 28 Posts: 7,438	Re: Sad... tonight meet him up, tell him how u felt. let him noe how serious tis is.... __________________ Do not expect Love in return. Just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it does not, Be content that it grew in yours... NDSL Friend Code Mario Kart DS :249199 383471 FF3 :498307 517199 Ultimate Jump Star :287854 120254