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Cleopatra · 22-06-2005, 09:52 AM

Wat are your views on this? I haf this fren Guy A :P gotta know him bout 8 mths ago...he likes a fren, btw all of us know one another (common friends) Miss A...he din go after her but tell us he likes her...he send her to wrk everyday...and all of us hang out on weekends too. Somehow Miss A hinted to him tat she dun like him and they are juz good frens...ok...couple of mths down the road...he told me he is going after my best buddy Miss B, and wants to knoe more bout her from me. Of coz I am more than glad to feed him with infor...as he is a nice guy. (actually a wolf in sheep's skin)he did ask Miss B to be his gf..but tooooo bad..got rejected once again. He did woo miss B very openly for maybe 3months.. Btw he did tell Miss A bout it and all of us support him to go after Miss B...too bad..things din work out. After tat 3 months...he gave up Miss B coz he decided not to waste his time on her and he decided to go after Miss C! (miss C is miss B best fren and colleagues..also my good fren). He told miss C tat he likes her...and wants her to be his gf..but miss C says..i tot u like Miss B. but Guy A says..no..actually Miss A and Miss B ain my type! (lamest excuse I have ever came across) anywayz miss C told miss B and me bout it and ask us wat are our views on it...i duno how to advise Miss C as Guy A is quite close to me as a fren..like a buddy. I dun wished to badmouth him and at the same time, I dun wanna see Miss C gets hurt. She is a very vulnerable and innocent girl and Miss B is not in a very good position to advise her as she was once "THE GIRL" thus Miss C is very lost now..duno whether to accept him. What shld she do? Or how shld I advise her.

Btw: miss C and GuyA only went to about 3 movies together (together with me or Miss B) and on the first movie date, Guy A can hardly remember how Miss C looks like as he has met her less than 10times in our grp outing. This sounds lil crazy but is actually wat happens

dennis · 22-06-2005, 10:00 AM

Hmm... if he is genuinely interested in Miss C why not? But if he just wants a gf... then advise Miss C to stay away from him. Cos he seems to be a bit despo to me.

Cleopatra · 22-06-2005, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by dennis

Hmm... if he is genuinely interested in Miss C why not? But if he just wants a gf... then advise Miss C to stay away from him. Cos he seems to be a bit despo to me.

exactly! tat guy's fren already told him, if he din get managed to woo Miss B. thats it. no more wooing of the girls from the group. oh well

hai_ou · 22-06-2005, 10:09 AM

Since Miss A & B already rejected him, we cant expect him to wait for them forever mah. he does have his rights to go after other girls.. BUT... judging from wat u said, they only met few times and he can hardly remember how Miss C looks like, ask Miss C not to jump into a decision so fast. observe him for a period. Time will tells.. if he reali like Miss C, he won't give up that fast. but if he change "target" within a short period AGAIN, then this prove that he is just pure despo.

Pyro Hazaard · 22-06-2005, 10:10 AM

he sounds like he's just trying his luck, keeping asking different girls until he hits upon one who is willing... better stay away bah...

fOrKiE · 22-06-2005, 10:14 AM

My suggestion is tat even though U r Mr A gd fren.... But i feel its betta to let ur grp of gal frds b abit wary of him. Cos I don think u will feel gd if ur gal frd get hurt in the end rite ?

And as for Mr A since he had oreali rejected by Miss A and B i think add 1 more Miss C won dampen his spirits anyway

Most prob he might get rdy to look for Miss D E F along the way but best to make sure those gals r not ur grp of frds will do.

*Jinjin* · 22-06-2005, 10:17 AM

if i were miss C, I'll definitely not choose him.... feel funny ;p

Devilishious · 22-06-2005, 01:09 PM

Go for more group outings to let the 2 know each other bah. How come the guy so despo for gf one? Anyhow shoot until he hits one?

lanevo7rs · 22-06-2005, 01:13 PM

my gawd...how old is this guy? acting like a secondary school kid...

spursy · 22-06-2005, 01:13 PM

if i would u, i would advise Miss C to think about it carefully, Mr A really sounds a like a despo to me also..As Mr A is your buddy, think u would understand more of him and therefore can give better advice to Miss C, dun say that u would badmouth him or wat, just tell Miss C frankly wat u thought of him lor..

pRinCeSsAJoLie · 22-06-2005, 02:06 PM

How well do you know Guy A ? If you claim to be good buddies, I'm sure you sorta know what kinda guy he is when it comes to love. You can "judge" from there if he is "worthy" . Meanwhile, I see no harm in just being friends with everyone else. It may be awkward cos he has chased almost everyone else, but when it comes to the heart, things are more complicated. I do think some people do fall in love easily. There's nth wrong with that. It's the part of maintaining the r/s, being true to the partner and what does he wants from the r/s. Some people may seem rather desperate and stuff but once they've snagged someone, they can be really faithful.

If you're concerned, I suggest you speak to Guy A properly.

Good luck!

Cleopatra · 22-06-2005, 02:23 PM

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Originally Posted by candyprincess

How well do you know Guy A ? If you claim to be good buddies, I'm sure you sorta know what kinda guy he is when it comes to love. You can "judge" from there if he is "worthy" . Meanwhile, I see no harm in just being friends with everyone else. It may be awkward cos he has chased almost everyone else, but when it comes to the heart, things are more complicated. I do think some people do fall in love easily. There's nth wrong with that. It's the part of maintaining the r/s, being true to the partner and what does he wants from the r/s. Some people may seem rather desperate and stuff but once they've snagged someone, they can be really faithful.

If you're concerned, I suggest you speak to Guy A properly.

Good luck!

Guy A is a guy in his mid 20s tat portrays himself as Mr Nice Guy..he is always helpful when it comes to chauffering us around. i dun mean coz he give me a lift and i am praising him. But like wat you said..when it comes to the matter of heart, i duno wat sort of person he is like. Is the first time i came across pple who woo all the girls from the same group! I cant speak to Guy A bout as tis wooing Miss C thingy is supposed to be between Miss C and Guy A. however Miss C is in a delimma and thus askin for my advice. And now...i really even doubt him for being so nice to us...maybe is tryin to get into our good books so tat it makes things easier for him to woo the other girlS.

pRinCeSsAJoLie · 22-06-2005, 02:28 PM

Well let Ms C get to know him better as a person. Tell her not to give in so early. Let him chase for a few months or so. If he really is sincere, he will wait.

Looks like Ms C is interested, she can let him know that he stands a chance but also let him know that she wants more time to know him as a person/friend, Couplehood can come later.

xscreamx · 22-06-2005, 02:49 PM

like despo sia.

violet79 · 22-06-2005, 08:20 PM

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Originally Posted by dennis

Hmm... if he is genuinely interested in Miss C why not? But if he just wants a gf... then advise Miss C to stay away from him. Cos he seems to be a bit despo to me.

agree..
is like go after A then reject then go B then reject then go C
try to eat every gers in the grp like tat..

22-06-2005, 09:52 AM	#1
Cleopatra Status: Queen Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: Neverland Posts: 1,648	wat are your views on this? Wat are your views on this? I haf this fren Guy A :P gotta know him bout 8 mths ago...he likes a fren, btw all of us know one another (common friends) Miss A...he din go after her but tell us he likes her...he send her to wrk everyday...and all of us hang out on weekends too. Somehow Miss A hinted to him tat she dun like him and they are juz good frens...ok...couple of mths down the road...he told me he is going after my best buddy Miss B, and wants to knoe more bout her from me. Of coz I am more than glad to feed him with infor...as he is a nice guy. (actually a wolf in sheep's skin)he did ask Miss B to be his gf..but tooooo bad..got rejected once again. He did woo miss B very openly for maybe 3months.. Btw he did tell Miss A bout it and all of us support him to go after Miss B...too bad..things din work out. After tat 3 months...he gave up Miss B coz he decided not to waste his time on her and he decided to go after Miss C! (miss C is miss B best fren and colleagues..also my good fren). He told miss C tat he likes her...and wants her to be his gf..but miss C says..i tot u like Miss B. but Guy A says..no..actually Miss A and Miss B ain my type! (lamest excuse I have ever came across) anywayz miss C told miss B and me bout it and ask us wat are our views on it...i duno how to advise Miss C as Guy A is quite close to me as a fren..like a buddy. I dun wished to badmouth him and at the same time, I dun wanna see Miss C gets hurt. She is a very vulnerable and innocent girl and Miss B is not in a very good position to advise her as she was once "THE GIRL" thus Miss C is very lost now..duno whether to accept him. What shld she do? Or how shld I advise her. Btw: miss C and GuyA only went to about 3 movies together (together with me or Miss B) and on the first movie date, Guy A can hardly remember how Miss C looks like as he has met her less than 10times in our grp outing. This sounds lil crazy but is actually wat happens __________________ "Expect nothing in life and you'll never be disappointed." Last edited by Cleopatra; 22-06-2005 at 10:01 AM..

22-06-2005, 10:00 AM	#2
dennis Status: Little Big Dreamer! Join Date: Aug 2002 Location: Singapore Age: 11 Posts: 12,586	Re: wat are your views on this? Hmm... if he is genuinely interested in Miss C why not? But if he just wants a gf... then advise Miss C to stay away from him. Cos he seems to be a bit despo to me. __________________ About Love \| My life, My Story \| What is your MBTI? "To love someone, you doesn't have to be together with her. As long as you can see the smile on her face, its all that matters. Love will take its form in a different way." If only everyday is like dat!

22-06-2005, 10:09 AM	#4
hai_ou Status: fLy HiGh & FaR Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: East Posts: 150	Re: wat are your views on this? Since Miss A & B already rejected him, we cant expect him to wait for them forever mah. he does have his rights to go after other girls.. BUT... judging from wat u said, they only met few times and he can hardly remember how Miss C looks like, ask Miss C not to jump into a decision so fast. observe him for a period. Time will tells.. if he reali like Miss C, he won't give up that fast. but if he change "target" within a short period AGAIN, then this prove that he is just pure despo. __________________

22-06-2005, 10:10 AM	#5
Pyro Hazaard Status: deluded Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: Moron Land Age: 27 Posts: 327	Re: wat are your views on this? he sounds like he's just trying his luck, keeping asking different girls until he hits upon one who is willing... better stay away bah... __________________ Be the change you want to see in the world. Gandhi

22-06-2005, 10:14 AM	#6
fOrKiE Status: Tarus Impossible 2 Gauge Join Date: Mar 2003 Age: 25 Posts: 3,368	Re: wat are your views on this? My suggestion is tat even though U r Mr A gd fren.... But i feel its betta to let ur grp of gal frds b abit wary of him. Cos I don think u will feel gd if ur gal frd get hurt in the end rite ? And as for Mr A since he had oreali rejected by Miss A and B i think add 1 more Miss C won dampen his spirits anyway Most prob he might get rdy to look for Miss D E F along the way but best to make sure those gals r not ur grp of frds will do. __________________ wÖðf Wøöf Last edited by fOrKiE; 22-06-2005 at 10:14 AM..

22-06-2005, 10:17 AM	#7
Jinjin Status: Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Age: 28 Posts: 295	Re: wat are your views on this? if i were miss C, I'll definitely not choose him.... feel funny ;p

22-06-2005, 01:09 PM	#8
Devilishious Status: Master Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: In Shanghai since 2007 Posts: 4,155	Re: wat are your views on this? Go for more group outings to let the 2 know each other bah. How come the guy so despo for gf one? Anyhow shoot until he hits one?

22-06-2005, 01:13 PM	#9
lanevo7rs Status: Italian Serpent Join Date: May 2003 Location: central Age: 31 Posts: 673	Re: wat are your views on this? my gawd...how old is this guy? acting like a secondary school kid...

22-06-2005, 01:13 PM	#10
spursy Status: คิดถึงนะ Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: ToMato Age: 31 Posts: 606	Re: wat are your views on this? if i would u, i would advise Miss C to think about it carefully, Mr A really sounds a like a despo to me also..As Mr A is your buddy, think u would understand more of him and therefore can give better advice to Miss C, dun say that u would badmouth him or wat, just tell Miss C frankly wat u thought of him lor..

22-06-2005, 02:06 PM	#11
pRinCeSsAJoLie Status: ~ pRinCeSs ~ Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: xXx.pRinCeSs.LanD.xXx Posts: 1,367	Re: wat are your views on this? How well do you know Guy A ? If you claim to be good buddies, I'm sure you sorta know what kinda guy he is when it comes to love. You can "judge" from there if he is "worthy" . Meanwhile, I see no harm in just being friends with everyone else. It may be awkward cos he has chased almost everyone else, but when it comes to the heart, things are more complicated. I do think some people do fall in love easily. There's nth wrong with that. It's the part of maintaining the r/s, being true to the partner and what does he wants from the r/s. Some people may seem rather desperate and stuff but once they've snagged someone, they can be really faithful. If you're concerned, I suggest you speak to Guy A properly. Good luck!

22-06-2005, 02:28 PM	#13
pRinCeSsAJoLie Status: ~ pRinCeSs ~ Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: xXx.pRinCeSs.LanD.xXx Posts: 1,367	Re: wat are your views on this? Well let Ms C get to know him better as a person. Tell her not to give in so early. Let him chase for a few months or so. If he really is sincere, he will wait. Looks like Ms C is interested, she can let him know that he stands a chance but also let him know that she wants more time to know him as a person/friend, Couplehood can come later.

22-06-2005, 02:49 PM	#14
xscreamx Status: jeslyn's sweetest Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: S'pore Age: 21 Posts: 510	Re: wat are your views on this? like despo sia. __________________ jeslyn loves you(: