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05-02-2004, 03:48 PM
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Status: *~ FuJiWaRa TaKuMi ~*
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: *~ In My He@rT ~*
Age: 22
Posts: 642
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Friends...
After my last year in sch in the year 2003... my friends and i seemed to be drifting apart... im really at a lost of wat to do...here's an excerpt from my online diary that tells of my problem, pls give me an advice...thx!
 We are drifting apart, i'm sure of it. We all used to be the bestest of friends in the best class i've ever had but time has taken its toll. As we spent less and less time together, our gaps grew wider and wider. We ceased to do things together, much less, talking. Obvious, would be the fact that all these has contributed to our faltering friendships, and it still is. Mere strangers, had we become, that we would just walk down a street without noticing one another's existence when we crossed our paths. Why? Why had we fail to acknowledge the very being of old friendships that were once blooming flowers in the meadow? Had we made new friends and forgotten the old? Have we all changed? Had we obliterated our past altogether and only look towards the future? Yes, life can only be lived forwards, but isn't it true that it can only be understood backwards? The true meaning of friendships is to give rather than to receive, is it because we do not receive anymore and had thus, refuse to look back at them? Old friends are the best mirrors to our hearts and we should hold them dear. Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born. It takes a long time to grow an old friend, so let us not give it up so easily. As the saying goes, "Make new friends and keep the old, one is silver and the other gold" You, my old friends, are worth more than gold to me, brighter than diamonds and larger in the space of my heart than the sun. Though our communication wanes at times of absence, i'm aware of a strength that emanates in the background. It would only be us, every one of us, to recognize and hold it somewhere special in our hearts. Let it not fly away and disappear in the distance? It is destiny that tied us together and only our own hands that untied them. It is not too late still for us to save what is left. We can still regrow them, make them bloom as they did before. My friends, i'll always remember each and everyone of you and maybe, it would be just be the same with you all. I've missed you people and i hope i wouldn't have to anymore. No lapse of time or distance of place can lessen the memories of you people in my mind. Please, oh please let us be what we were before we part? I do hope my words will motivate us to regain contacts that we had lost. Let us not forget the friendships that we once treasure, okay?
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 A heart of loneliness, accompanied by the sound of heavy raindrops against the window pane.
Eyes of sadness, filled with heart-felt emotions against an obselete past long forgotten. ~*My Qoutes#02*~ |
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05-02-2004, 03:54 PM
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Status: nEwBe ShOoTeR
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: 我的新加坡
Age: 26
Posts: 2,405
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Re: Friends...
erm u got @ least try to communicate wif ur fren? like SMS? online??
during festivals send a msg to let themnoe u care... |
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05-02-2004, 03:57 PM
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Status: *~ FuJiWaRa TaKuMi ~*
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: *~ In My He@rT ~*
Age: 22
Posts: 642
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Re: Friends...
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A heart of loneliness, accompanied by the sound of heavy raindrops against the window pane.
Eyes of sadness, filled with heart-felt emotions against an obselete past long forgotten. ~*My Qoutes#02*~ |
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05-02-2004, 04:03 PM
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Status: nEwBe ShOoTeR
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: 我的新加坡
Age: 26
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Re: Friends...
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or that ur fren is those "xi xing yen jiu" ppl?? i dunno lah but i haven realli met such a person yet... sometimes receiving an email from an old friend works wonders... |
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05-02-2004, 04:05 PM
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Status: *~ FuJiWaRa TaKuMi ~*
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: *~ In My He@rT ~*
Age: 22
Posts: 642
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Re: Friends...
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A heart of loneliness, accompanied by the sound of heavy raindrops against the window pane.
Eyes of sadness, filled with heart-felt emotions against an obselete past long forgotten. ~*My Qoutes#02*~ Last edited by unfoundlegacy; 05-02-2004 at 04:06 PM.. |
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05-02-2004, 04:06 PM
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Status: nEwBe ShOoTeR
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: 我的新加坡
Age: 26
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05-02-2004, 04:08 PM
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Status: *~ FuJiWaRa TaKuMi ~*
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: *~ In My He@rT ~*
Age: 22
Posts: 642
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Re: Friends...
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A heart of loneliness, accompanied by the sound of heavy raindrops against the window pane.
Eyes of sadness, filled with heart-felt emotions against an obselete past long forgotten. ~*My Qoutes#02*~ Last edited by unfoundlegacy; 05-02-2004 at 04:08 PM.. |
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05-02-2004, 04:16 PM
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Status: nEwBe ShOoTeR
Join Date: Nov 2003
Location: 我的新加坡
Age: 26
Posts: 2,405
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Re: Friends...
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he may not be the type to treasure friendships... haven "kai qiao" yet... i tink ur situation still ok lor... @ least got tok... to tellu the truth, when i was in pri sch (donkey years ago i noe  ) i hav this few best frenz... but now also no contact le... in poly, i saw this one guy lor.. used to be same class in pro sch de... when i saw him, i had this friendly look on my face, wanted to greet him de... but then he juz walked past mi, as if he doesnt noe mi... so u must treasure ur frenz ar... at least u are toking to him/her... when u go other schools or watever, friendships are quite complicated de... haiz~~ wish i was back in sec sch daes........... |
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